Why Trying Harder Hasn't Fixed Your Drinking (And What Actually Will)
Updated: Sep 2
If you've tried moderation, apps, rules, and sheer willpower and none of it stuck, this explains why, and it's not about effort.
The problem isn't a lack of effort.
Moderation rules. Apps. Dry July. Bargaining at 4pm every day for months. Reading everything available on the topic. Promising, genuinely meaning it, more times than can be counted.
That's not a lack of effort. That's a lot of effort, spent on the wrong lever.
Willpower and discipline operate at the conscious level. The pattern being fought operates at the subconscious level, underneath where willpower can reach. It's not possible to out-discipline something that isn't stored as a conscious decision in the first place.
Email Sarah and share what's already been tried. Every message is read personally, no judgement, just a straight answer about why it didn't stick.


This article first ran in Vol.1 of WOMAN Magazine in New Zealand 2023.
To discover more about Sarah Kelt or to book a free discovery email sarah@mindsettransformations.com


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